Have you ever experienced moments where it feels like the universe is listening to your thoughts? I certainly have. It’s those times when I think of something, and suddenly, it starts appearing in my life almost magically. That’s the laws of attraction at work, and they’ve been a guiding force in my journey of manifestation. In fact, they formed the basis of my first book, Coach Yourself to Success.
“Our life is what our thoughts make it.” – Marcus Aurelius.
This quote resonates with me because it reminds me of the immense power we hold within our minds to shape our reality. It’s a comforting notion, that our thoughts and emotions can profoundly influence the course of our lives. Oh course, if you are filled with negativity, maybe it’s not so comforting! But if that’s the case, don’t worry, I’m sharing some simple steps to help you shift into a more positive mindset and start effortlessly attracting what you want.
Let me start by sharing a story from one of our 1-1 coaching clients, Sam. A few years ago, Sam came to me feeling stuck in her career. She had been working in marketing for several years, but she felt unfulfilled and wished for something more meaningful. During our coaching sessions, Sam shared her desire to transition into a career that aligned with her passion for health and wellness.
She started practicing visualization and affirmation, focusing on her vision of herself thriving in a wellness-related profession. She imagined herself working as a holistic health coach, guiding others on their journey to optimal well-being. Despite initial doubts, Sam committed to aligning her thoughts and emotions with her desired outcome. I asked her to create a vision board with images that related to her new career, as well as a very specific ideal job description.
As Sam continued to do the life coaching assignments, she activated the laws of attraction and remarkable opportunities began to appear. She received an unexpected invitation to attend a wellness retreat where she connected with influential figures in the industry. Inspired by her passion and enthusiasm, Sam was offered a position as a wellness program coordinator at a prestigious health center. The offer exceeded her expectations, blending her marketing expertise with her passion for health and wellness. With gratitude, Sam accepted the position and began a fulfilling new chapter in her career.
Sam’s success story is a testament to the power of the laws of attraction. By aligning her thoughts and actions with her desired outcome, she manifested a career that fulfilled her professional aspirations and allowed her to make a positive impact on others’ lives.
So, let me share with you some practical steps that have helped me harness the laws of attraction in my life.
Clarify Your Desires
The first step is gaining clarity on what you really want. Take some time to reflect on your goals and aspirations, and write them down in detail. The process of articulating your desires helps solidify them in your mind and sends a clear signal to the universe. And make sure these goals are in alignment with your core values so that you don’t waste time chasing the wrong goals.
Visualize Your Success
Creative visualization is a powerful tool in the practice of the laws of attraction. Take a moment to close your eyes and imagine yourself already living your desired reality. Feel the emotions of joy and fulfillment as if it’s already happening. Visualization helps you align your energy with your goals and keeps you focused on the outcome you wish to manifest.
Cultivate Positive Thoughts and Emotions
Your thoughts and emotions act as magnets, attracting similar energy into your life. Focus on cultivating positivity by replacing doubts and fears with faith and optimism. Affirmations and gratitude practices are effective ways to shift your mindset and align yourself with abundance. (And, if you don’t know what your personal and emotional needs are, you might inadvertently be repelling the very people and opportunities you most want to attract. So get your needs met!)
Take Action
While thoughts are powerful, action is necessary for manifestation. Trust your intuition and take steps towards your goals. Pay attention to opportunities that present themselves and seize them with enthusiasm. Trust that the universe is conspiring in your favor and guiding you towards your desires.
Release Attachment and Surrender
Letting go of attachment to outcomes helps activate the laws of attraction. Trust in the divine timing of the universe and surrender to the flow of life. Release any resistance or attachment to how your desires will manifest, and instead, focus on the feelings of gratitude and abundance in the present moment. The more grateful you are for what you have, even if it doesn’t seem enough, the more you will attract.
As you start to leverage the laws of attraction, you’ll notice good things start popping into your life. Yes, it does feel a bit magical. Remember, by harnessing the laws of attraction you can manifest your deepest desires and create the life you dream of.
