52: Accept Graciously…

“Let us open up our natures, throw wide the doors of our hearts and let in the sunshine of good will and kindness.” O.S. Marden

Most people don’t have any problem giving gifts or compliments, but for some reason, we find it difficult to accept them. Graciously accepting is one secret to attracting more of what you want. It is not only impolite but also unattractive to reject a gift or compliment by saying things like, “You shouldn’t have,” “It was really nothing,” “Oh, this old thing?” or, “I just bought it on sale.” There is no need for you to do anything or make any explanation. Simply say, “Thank you!” and smile. Any negative comment is a subtle way of telling the person he doesn’t know what he is talking about; it is insulting to both you and the giver. The art of graciously accepting a compliment may take some practice but is well worth learning.

In addition to accepting graciously, it is also a good idea to be gracious. If you always put people ahead of results in life and in work, you will be gracious, and that is a very attractive quality.

Homework: This week, practice accepting compliments and gifts graciously. You’ll be instantly more attractive. When in doubt, just say “Thank you!”

Reading Assignment: Tip 78, Coach Yourself to Success

Enjoy!

Talane

P.S. Only one more week to complete the first-year course – next week is party time! But we don’t have to say good-bye yet… I’d love it if you joined me in my advanced course, The Ideal Life Program. You’ve already done the hardest work these past 12 months: now you’re in a position to reap the benefits. Continuing seamlessly with the progress you’ve already made, you’ll learn:

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• Letting go of the future as a focal point
• Understanding and respecting what motivates you
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