A few people have written in panic that they just couldn't throw out their dead goals (any goal you've had over a year that you've made no significant progress on).

One reader asked this:

“Regarding this: If a goal is over one year old, toss it. Don't waste time trying to resuscitate a dead goal. Pick a new goal that truly excites you instead.

I’m determined that this will be the year I do get serious about my writing.  It’s hard for me – the discipline, keeping my butt in the chair when it gets hard, especially after a long workday (almost never happens then. I’ve discovered that essay writing is less intimidating than my novel, but I’m determined to get that novel written. I’ve pitched my concept to several agents who say it’s a great concept, and I have the talent, but for whatever reason it just never happens.

When do you know when you should or shouldn’t toss out a goal?

I admit that in the past I have put it away entirely thinking this was not for me. That is, if I had really wanted to do it, I’d have done it by now – which fits into your advice.

What are your thoughts on this?”

Talane: If you can't bring yourself to toss a dead goal, put in place a rock solid structure for support to make sure it happens even if you wiffle waffle about.

Great question! Writing is very easy to procrastinate on so in your case, I'd say, don't ditch it, but take a serious look at what you need to do to make this year different.

Here is what I'd do:

1) Every day without fail write three pages in your journal (not on your book!) The point is to get into the habit of writing. You can write in the morning or the evening, whichever works best for you. But do it first thing when you get up if in the morning so you don't miss it!

2) Every week take yourself on an artist's date. This is important because you need to nurture your creative side. Go to a museum, walk in the park, see a concert, play with paints or just take a bubble bath. Whatever feels like it is inspiring and nurturing your creativity. (Tips are from Cameron's book, The Artist's Way, which is a great read btw).

3) If it is fiction you are writing, then get the book, No Plot, No Problem by Chris Baty. Two friends of mine have read it and then written novels in 30 days.

4) Get support. Find a writer's group in your area and join it for support. Or get support from a writing buddy, a coach or you may want to join the Coach Yourself to Success online program at LifeCoach.com for support if you aren't already a member. 

5) Put me in your acknowledgments when you finish the book --:) just kidding! 

Good luck to you!

Warmest,

Talane