Getting the Love You Want

Happy Valentine's Day! My husband was denigrating Valentine's Day as a commercial trick to get men to buy stuff. That is one way to look at it. But I said, “Hey, let's say there was no official Valentine's Day. Wouldn't it be nice to dedicate one day out of the year to love?” So there you have it. After his grumblings, I assumed that I wouldn't be getting much from him on the day so I took it upon myself to buy a lovely antique rhinestone collar in amethyst from the 1960's – it is stunning. I gave it to my husband and said that he could give it to me on Valentine's Day.

Then, the weekend rolls around and he presents me with a bright red handbag covered in hearts – fun -- And especially thoughtful since he thinks I have a few too many handbags already! And he bought me a new novel to read and even a sweet little gift from the girls. We had a very expensive dinner out on Saturday night and a perfect weekend. I felt completely cherished (my number one emotional need) and feel all warm and fuzzy about him after this weekend of surprises.
 
If you want to ensure your needs are met and that you get the love you want, it helps to know what your needs are. Take the Emotional Index Quiz right here at lifecoach.com and you'll find out your top four needs. That is the first step to getting the love you want. Then you'll have to learn how to ask for what you want. I was perfectly willing to satisfy my own needs (and did) and when you don't need your husband or partner to do anything, all of the sudden they surprise you. This is because when you don't need it, you are much more likely to attract it (whatever “it” may be) – one of the laws of attraction. It helps to have a wonderful husband too!
 
Happy Valentine's Day!
xx
Talane
 
PS You can take the quiz at www.lifecoach.com. It is free and completely confidential. You'll receive an email with your top four needs after you complete it.
 

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