First, I gained some real value from the program — mostly it was in helping me become unstuck in a few key areas. Like you said, it seemed almost like magic. I didn't push anything or struggle, rather I just eased up and changed my viewpoint and then things shifted. For example, for a long time I've been bothered by all the clutter my very sweet and dear husband leaves around the house. I just accepted it as my lot in life to constantly need to move this stuff around as I need an orderly environment (my #1 emotional need as it turns out) and he doesn't.

 First of all I want to apologize for my English, because it's not my mother tongue. Anyway, I enjoy your tips that I receive in my inbox, especially the tip from this week (get rid of all those petty annonyances). I found this a rather stupid idea. But after a few weeks, I decided to do it anyway.